Most of us want to be the best version of ourselves but some people doubt that it’s possible to change as you get older. Actually yes, you can change, there are always ways to improve yourself. Here are our twenty top tips for being a better person.
Pick one small thing you want to change about your life and take small steps to reach your goal.
Learn your triggers
Stop over reacting to what others think and say
Let go of control
Accept that the only things you can change in this world are your behaviour, your mindset, and your communication style
Face your dark side
It’s not always easy, but when you face your dark side, you bring it to light and immediately allow yourself to shine brighter than ever!
Being a better person starts by recognising your responsibility in life and stop passing the buck.
Assess your life
Take time to think about your life and make a list of things you might be able to change.
Since the external world is a pure reflection of us, it can give us a lot of information about ourselves when we take the time to observe and be aware
List what stops you and change that situation.
A life with boundaries is the perfect environment to be yourself and live your best life.
Stop trying to please others
Once you learn to let go of pleasing others, you can begin to live your own life. You no longer tailor your experience to the image of others but more to what you want and who you are.
Surround yourself with positive people
Surround yourself with people who are genuinely interested in you.
Know your values
Once you are clear about what your values are you will build a life that is more fulfilling.
Distance yourself from what you don’t want
By distancing yourself from things that don’t align with your authentic self, you are saying no to distraction and hindrance to living your best life.
Change your relationship with abundance
By saying thank you when you receive a compliment or accepting help when it is offered, you are saying “yes” to receive. This will shift your life to be more abundant.
Try becoming your best friend, and your life will take a fantastic turn.
Learn to love your body
Compassion toward ourselves will often lead to higher self-esteem and more self-confidence
Stop comparing yourself to others
When you compare yourself to others, you automatically feed a belief that you should be like others, that being yourself is not enough.
Connect with your inner child
Take the time to play again, to make mistakes, forgive and try something else. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and do what your heart tells you to do.
Be kind with your self-talk
Be aware of your negative chatter and transform it into more positive affirmations.
Self-awareness is the key to becoming the best version of yourself and can transform your life.